LEARNING TO LEAD: 8th GRADE RETREAT AT ST. MALO

Walking in the footsteps of Pope John Paul II; worshiping in the Chapel on the Rock; discovering the leaders
they are; becoming closer to each other; becoming closer to God. These are among the memories created at
the leadership retreat for Sts. Peter and Paul School eighth graders this fall. The entire SPPS class of 2009,
along with teachers and parent chaperones headed to St. Malo Retreat Center on September 22nd, where
they spent the better part of two days focused on spirituality and leadership.

The fall 2008 retreat schedule consisted of presentations, group discussions, games, and time to enjoy the
beautiful mountain setting. Gina Zaccagnini and Chris Schilmoeller, both from FOCUS ministries, were keynote
speakers. During their joint presentation, eighth graders learned how they are like a twenty dollar bill. When
asked who wanted a twenty dollar bill, all the students raised their hands. After seeing the bill chewed on, and
put inside one presenter's nose, fewer students were interested in the bill. At least one participant understood
that the bill retained the same value, despite it's condition, and enthusiastically called for the prize. The metaphor
illustrated that like a twenty dollar bill, God's love for us, and our value to Him doesn't change, regardless of how
messy or tattered we might be. And, no matter our condition, He enthusiastically welcomes us when we offer
ourselves.

The FOCUS presenters also spoke with boys and girls separately about issues of faith and leadership. The students received strong messages about the power of God's love in their lives, and that no matter how far one might turn away, God will always welcome them back. Assistant Principal, Bridgette Herbert, talked to the group about examining their paths, "There is a way. How is your will?" Each presentation gave the students much to think about. During small group discussion, students had a chance to digest the many concepts presented.

Another powerful metaphor the students experienced was in the form of a game called "Landmines." The class was divided into several groups with each group blindfolding one member. The other members of the group then had to verbally lead their teammate through an area filled with landmines (e.g. chairs placed in the way). All groups went at the same time, so the blindfolded members had to sort through all the shouting voices for the voice that led them to safety. Other leadership games taught the students the importance of working together.

One of the highlights for many students was an evening hike on the John Paul II trail at St. Malo. "The night hike was cool because Pope John Paul II walked the same trail," commented SPPS eighth grader Luke Arenas. Adults and students alike were moved by the concluding special Mass in the Chapel. "The Chapel on the Rocks was amazing", reflected Stephen Archuleta.

Herbert's goal for the retreat was to create a community of leaders and learners. " We're at a loss in our world for leaders, and I want them to know they can lead." SPPS eighth grader Devy Cole reflected later, "At first I didn't think of myself as a leader. Now I know we have to show good leadership." She also said of the retreat, "People really care about us and how we will turn out." Classmate Maria Glassmeyer-Pabon learned an important aspect of leadership, " Sometimes to be a leader, you have to be a follower."